Posted On: 8/15/2008Is it time to potty train your son or daughter? Are you having difficulty toilet training your child? These tips will help make potty training easier for you and your toddler.
Potty training your child might seem like a daunting task—especially if you are a first-time trainer. But successful potty training can come more easily if you break it down into steps.
Step 1: Talk About Potty Training with Your Child
- Talk to your toddler about what it means to be “wet” and “dry” or “messy” and “clean.” Talk about the benefits of potty training. For example, you can explain to your daughter that staying clean and dry and wearing big girl underwear just feels better.
- Read books about potty training. This will make potty training more fun and prepare your toddler to try going potty.
Step 2: Show Your Child What to Expect
- Show your little one his potty chair, how to flush, how to wipe, and how to wash up.
- Model for your child. Mommies are used to having a little one with them at all times and are great role models. But older siblings can be great potty trainers too.
Step 3: Practice! Let Your Child Try Going Potty
- Try to make using the potty part of your little one’s routine. Start with only one or two visits a day, first thing in the morning or after a meal.
- Increase the number of potty breaks. Include trips before going outside for play time or before leaving home.
- Even if your toddler doesn’t pee or poop at every potty break, your child can still flush, wipe, and wash up.
A Few Extra Tips To help your potty training toddler associate the process with the place, you can begin changing diapers in the bathroom. Also, when you show your child the new potty, explain that the potty chair goes in the bathroom instead of letting him take it to a play room or bedroom.
Remember that accidents happen. When they do, stay upbeat and positive. Kids pick up on negative feelings associated with going potty. Children who are uncertain or fearful might resist toilet training.
Use specific terms when you talk to your child about potty training. Saying “going to the bathroom” is too vague. Words like “pee” and “poop” are specific and easy for children to say. Potty training will be easier if your child can communicate with you about body functions. Whatever terms you use, be sure you and your child are comfortable saying them.
Finally, don’t forget that other parents are a great resource. Find out what potty training secrets have worked for others, or share your own tips in the comment section.