Posted On: 10/9/2008Potty training advice and tips to help you personalize your toddler’s potty training routine and achieve success more quickly.
Potty training your child can seem difficult—especially if you are a first-time trainer. But successful potty training can come more easily if you follow these potty training suggestions:
Talk to your toddler about going potty.
- Talk to your toddler about what it means to be “wet” and “dry” or “messy” and “clean.”
- Explain the benefits of potty training in terms your toddler understands. For example, you can explain to your daughter that staying clean and dry and wearing big girl underwear will help her feel better.
- Read books about potty training to your child. This will make potty training more fun and prepare your toddler to try going potty. If your son’s favorite characters are learning to go potty, he’ll want to go potty too! Books are also available for parents, and they are a great resource if you need help tackling more difficult obstacles.
Show your toddler that going potty is easy.
- Show your little one his potty chair, how to flush, how to wipe, and how to wash up.
- Model for your child. Mommies are used to having a little one with them at all times and are great role models. But older siblings can be great potty trainers too, especially if sibling are the same sex.
Practice!
- Try to make using the potty part of your little one’s routine.
- Start with only one or two visits a day, first thing in the morning or after a meal.
- Increase the number of potty breaks. Include trips before going outside for play time or before leaving home.
- Even if your toddler doesn’t pee or poop at every potty break, your child can still flush, wipe, and wash up.
More Potty Training AdviceTo help your potty training toddler associate going potty with the place, you can begin changing diapers in the bathroom. Also, when you show your child the new potty chair, explain that the it goes in the bathroom instead of letting your toddler carry it off to a bedroom or play room.
Sometimes accidents happen. When they do, stay upbeat and positive. Kids pick up on negative feelings associated with going potty. Children who are uncertain or fearful might resist toilet training. Instead of focusing on the negative, praise the things your child did right this time. And add that next time the two of you can try to take another step.
Use specific terms when you talk to your child about potty training. Saying “going to the bathroom” just isn't specific enough for a small child. Words like “pee” and “poop” are specific and easy for children to say. Potty training will be easier if your child can communicate with you about body functions. Whatever terms you use, be sure you and your child are comfortable saying them.
Finally, don’t forget that other parents are a great resource. Find out what potty training secrets have worked for others, or share your own tips in the comment section.
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